Who I am
Hi and thank you for taking the time to read a little about what I hope we are each searching for in a relationship?
I enjoy life - there is always something fun or relaxing we can do and enjoy – from just being with each other, taking a walk, sports, dance, hiking, biking, exercise, plays, exploring, wine tastings, skiing, scuba diving, the beach and many others...
I truly enjoy laughing, trying to be funny, making things positive, fun and enjoyable.
If you are looking for conflict, looking for someone to blame or searching for issues - please look elsewhere - I am not going to “fit” with anyone that is not looking for happiness.
I do NOT enjoy extremes, baggage or drama! I will not bring it to you, thank you for doing the same.
If something does go wrong, and issues out of our control can, let’s take a moment, cry ourselves a river and then build a bridge to get over it! There are many beautiful things to see and enjoy after we cross that river!
I search for
My desire is to meet a handsome, sensitive, sensuous, warm, - ertive single man who wants a friend.My interpretation of a friend is one to whom you can pour out all the contents of your heart, chaff and grain together, knowing that the gentleness of hands will take it all, sift it, keep that which is worth keeping and, with a breath of kindness, blow the rest away. I thank you in advance for allowing me to be that kind of friend to you.
I am looking for a special, loving relationship with a unique Man who is affectionate, handsome, with a shapely figure, sincere, easygoing, with interests and characteristics similar to mine...someone who wants a meaningful, serious, long-term relationship...not just a few dates. Are you that special Man?
I am looking for someone who has a great sense of humor and big heart, is curious about new things that would like to share new experiences or old habits.
I am looking for someone who believes that a true intimate partner looks out for the other and vice versa. While navigating life together, we are caring and concerned for each other's well-being because we make each other so happy and we love each other very much.
Looking for a serious long term relationship with someone who posesses strong character and is goal-oriented. He must love the Lord with all of his heart,then I know he will love me with all his heart.
He should enjoy good humor, love to laugh, and be a hopeless romantic.So that would make him a God-loving romantic guy......and God will approve.lol. My ideal partner must love to take long walks...holding hands....when I am not giving him a "walk for his money"....His yes must be yes, and his no, no.
If you enjoy a good book, walks , watch what you put into your "temple"....just love praising God, can dance even a little.....
But I also want to be in a relationship where I can totally trust the other person and not dwell on how the relationship is NOT working...
As far as an ideal partner, i don't have a type....charisma, humor and charm come in many packages.....I care about honesty, integrity & sincerity u know the basics....Those who know its impossible to walk a righteous path and do right by everybody,.....but at least still try(emphasis on strong effort)....i am attracted to overtly passionate mature people who are totally comfortable in their own skin,..who know who they are(the good and the bad)and recognize their flaws, yet are unashamed (and not afraid to show) of the quirky, sometimes contradictory, eccentric aspects of their personality that define their individuality.....When u are genuine and sincere, people may not always love u.....but they usually respect u (at least that been my experience).....I am interested in forming a positive, healthy and enjoyable friendship with a quality person(s).
With regards to a relationships, i now want more from life than family and friends can offer. Meaning i would like to meet the type of MAN that really would enjoy sensually charged chemistry, laughter and uncomplicated real time meet and greets....Someone who is highly affectionate, passionate, loving, considerate and is happy with himself just the way he is today right now. While i too am highly passionate i am not interested in just mere - alone, Additionally, I believe in and would like to continue learning to create and savor the simple pleasures in life, such as womanhood and learning more about myself as an individual...appreciating those often brief and fleeting moments of beauty & perfection (and not so perfect) for what they are...nothing more nothing less.
Lets communicate, I promise i will be a lady and warm(with a bit of excitability at times as i am very high spirited and a bit humorous).
I will approach u with hope, and an open dialogue to include a positive and productive goal with a genuine concern for the future of a healthy relationship(friend or otherwise).
My greatest qualities
I'm an intelligent, stylish fellow seeking an equally bright, accomplished woman of elegance and substance. I'm an historian by profession, a published author, and work as a museum curator at the Smithsonian. I'm an avid tennis player and a passionate skier. I am also very interested in fashion and being attentive to my personal appearance and style. (It's in the blood. My mother was a European trained fashion designer.) I like women who also share the fun and take pleasure in dressing well and fashionably.
I'm skillful in the kitchen and enjoy the enhancement a fine glass of wine brings to a well prepared meal. I'm an easy-going, easy to be with person who can laugh at himself and laugh with others. I seek the company of intelligent, confident women who enjoy the attention of a caring, romantic man.
As with most people, I highly value honesty, integrity, kindness, compassion, humor, and passion. I try to make these the foundation of my life and my relationships.
What I would like to change in my life
all that doesnt seem to be good in me